Feedback that Works – Banter!

‘How to Share Awesome Feedback’ Videos and Banter

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Video #3: Released January 15, 2:00 EST — Making Feedback “Stick!”

Video #2: Released January 11, 4:00 EST –Awesome Feedback Discussions – Avoiding Hurt and Defensiveness

Video number one: Released January 8, 8:00 EST — How to Prepare to Give Feedback that Works

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13 thoughts on “Feedback that Works – Banter!”

  1. Marsha, you mentioned that I sit behind my big desk and create a superiority wall, I get it, it is true. But, I expected you to say, get up from sitting behind your desk and sit in one of the chairs with the person you are seeking to help, get at their level, lose the desk, and communicate in a personal way. You didn’t say that, so I am not just saying it, I am going to do this from now on. Not only that, but I am going to get our conference room project completed quickly so that any of our managers can have a private place to use for those touchy conversations.
    Thanks for that!

    1. Hi Wayne, I didn’t say it but I MEANT to say it. Thanks for the clarification, and good luck with your conference room project!

  2. collecting evidence seems like a strong word, i think of getting the facts documented so that you can give solid examples and show them. Vague statements are meaningless without documentation. Be sure to learn both sides of a situation as well. One person’s interpretation of a behavior, might simply be a 1 time experience by the other party and blown up.

    1. Good points, Linda.Evidence might be too strong a word, collecting examples is very important for us to prepare for the dialogue. Thanks for sharing!

  3. It is amazing what you can learn sitting and watching a small video. I think that it is very helpful on both sides.

  4. From video one Do you have any suggestions for “icebreakers” to get the conversation started so the person feels at ease?

    1. Yes, Mike! The best way to start is in a respectful friendly way… Smile, ask them to have a seat. Sit down next to them, if possible, rather than across a desk, and ask a rapport building question. Nothing too deep, but something along “How’d you like the Eagles game last night.” Spend a minute or two on that, listening caringly. Then state a description of the expected behavior (NOT policy). “You know, Mike, it is important that we have all of our customer care folks at their desks and ready by the time we start at 8:00.” Then review the specific deets of when the person was late for work… These are Steps 1 and 2 of our formula. Hope this helps! PS. Fly Eagles Fly!

  5. Appreciate your focus on RESPECT, Marsha. That’s a key to any successful communication, including in the workplace. We can’t move ahead effectively in any relationship without the respect component being clearly evident.

  6. If you follow the steps you have outlined and the person you’re trying to give feedback too becomes vey defensive and even hostile what do you do? Do you end the session with positive comments and respect and then try again at a later date?

    1. That is a possibility. Most likely, when you’ve followed these steps – all of them, and you remain positive and encouraging, it won’t come to that. If it does, the person will most likely come back to you after he or she has had time to think about it. The bottom line is that you’re trying to help, and given some time to think, they should realize it.

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